There is a very thought provoking book, I plan to read
https://www.amazon.com/Top-Five-Regrets-Dying-Transformed/dp/140194065X/
3.
I wish I had the courage to
express my feelings and speak my mind
a.
I could not resist the fear
of confrontations mostly from my better half as I don’t want to destroy peace
of my life
b.
I could have spoken more
courageously against some of the decisions, to which I have submissively
agreed, especially regarding parents and child
4.
I wish I had stayed in touch
with my friends
a.
Yes, that is perhaps one of
the biggest regrets
b.
I didn’t get chance to meet
face to face to my closest friends for long Vishnu, navin, rajiv and many
others, its horrible, if things go on like this
5.
I wish I had let myself be happier
a.
I often got confused between
happiness and many other things in life
b.
Perhaps the burden of so
many aims, aspirations and images, overshadowed it
https://www.amazon.com/Top-Five-Regrets-Dying-Transformed/dp/140194065X/
The Top Five Regrets of the Dying: A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing
It is really soul searching. I would perhaps like to list
them myself
1.
I wish I pursued my dreams and aspirations, and
not the life others expected of me
a.
Sometimes, I look back and think that I could have
better pursued my dream of entrepreneurship, long back. There was no need to
waste so many years, just trying to prove myself
2.
I wish I didn’t work so hard
a.
Being ambitious is perhaps a curse on life, if
it overshadows me. I felt that when I was in US and was alone
b.
I made some career decisions, where I had to ignore my family
3.
I wish I had the courage to
express my feelings and speak my mind
a.
I could not resist the fear
of confrontations mostly from my better half as I don’t want to destroy peace
of my life
b.
I could have spoken more
courageously against some of the decisions, to which I have submissively
agreed, especially regarding parents and child
4.
I wish I had stayed in touch
with my friends
a.
Yes, that is perhaps one of
the biggest regrets
b.
I didn’t get chance to meet
face to face to my closest friends for long Vishnu, navin, rajiv and many
others, its horrible, if things go on like this
5.
I wish I had let myself be happier
a.
I often got confused between
happiness and many other things in life
b.
Perhaps the burden of so
many aims, aspirations and images, overshadowed it
Can I live without regret, Yes
1.
Vacate Space, empty mind and
de-clutter life
a.
Actually with minor adjustments,
things can perhaps tough in the beginning but the space will increase the
degree of happiness for sure
b.
I don’t need so much money to live
happily.
2.
I will avoid Procrastinate regarding
a.
Ideal and obedient child and life
partner
b.
Ideal career
1.
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